The Measure of a Man
How is a man defined?
When does a boy become a man?
What is the transformation that occurs,
the change from boy to man?
What is the measure of a man?

Science says the change from boy to man
is the deepening voice and hair of the face.
Politics says the change is at 18 or 21;
18 to vote and smoke, and 21 to drink.
Are these the makings of a man?

Some say its the women you've had,
or the beer that you drink.
Others say its the reckless things you've done,
or the fights that you've fought.
These define the person; but do they make a man?

To some, to swear is to be a man,
or how much liquor you can hold.
To others it's tattoos and the scars that you sport,
or even the length of their criminal records.
Is this what makes a man, a man?

I say this is the measure of a man;
To treat a woman with respect and dignity,
and give of yourself so she is cared for.
The beliefs that you hold, and how they are applied.
The responsibility given, and the dependability you have.

The measure of a man is first inward, then outward.
It is the honor you have, loyalty and integrity.
It is the courage taken, to do what you believe to be in the right.
It is the commitment shown, to do the job and do it right.
Manhood is core values: honor, courage, and commitment.

                                                            July '98

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